3 Powerful Prayers To END all arguments

Lord, help me identify what brings arguments into my life.

1. Help me identify what brings arguments into my life Lord.

James 3:16

For where envying and strife is, there is confusion and every evil work.

Father, there is so much confusion. I want clarity in my life father. I want to know what leads to all the arguments in my life. I humble myself and ask you to un-blind my eyes and unstop my deaf ears father and grant me understanding.  Father, is it me or is it the people in my life. Father, I desire to be a reflection of my savior. Change me Father, change my facial expressions, my stance, my tone, and fill me with the spirit of goodness and gentleness. Transform me by changing the way I think. Help me to be as wise as a serpent and gentle as a dove.  I want to do what Romans 16:17 instructs by marking those who cause division and offences contrary to what you have taught me and give me the strength, desire and ability to peaceably avoid them. As a matter of fact, just make me avoid them in love Father. Save me from myself and this pattern of strife that is leading to physical, mental and emotional destruction. If I am filled with envy, empty me. If those that I love, care about and communicate with are filled with envy, empty them Father. We need you. We trust you as I boldly declare that I will no longer operate in the evil work that strife brings, instead I will destroy every evil work as I allow the Holy Spirit to guide me out of the strife in my life.   

​In Jesus name, I pray,

Amen.

2. Help me to speak from a peaceful place Lord

Psalms 120:7

I am for peace: but when I speak, they are for war.

God of peace, I pray that I am for peace when I speak and I ask you father, to deliver me from those who speak that are for war. I thank you, because I know, believe and trust that it is already done.

In Jesus name, I pray,

Amen.

3. Deliver me from strife Lord

Psalms 18:43

You have delivered me from the strife, contentions and striving of the people. You have made me head of nations. A people I do not know shall serve me.

Father, I pray that you deliver me from the strife, contentions, division and the striving of the people. And father if there be any strife, contention, division and striving in me, I ask for your help to change me. I do not want to be argumentative father. I do not want to keep company with those who are argumentative. Fill me with the quiet and gentle spirit that you love. I desire to speak the truth in love and grace. I don’t want to nag, pressure or guilt anyone to do anything. I don’t want to be nagged, pressured or guilted to do something that I do not want to do. Father strengthen me, to let my yes be yes, and no be no, as your word instructs in Mark 5:37. Help me to draw near to you Lord with a pure and sincere heart. Fill me with the faith necessary to believe that everything will be ok as I stand in your strength. Sprinkle my heart with the blood of Jesus as you deliver me from a guilty conscience. Wash me with the purity of the truth as I set boundaries that breed peace. I want to speak with gentleness, fill me Lord with a gentle spirit. I want be kind, fill me Lord with your kindness. I want to be able to receive words of correction that will help me grow into the image of Christ. Help me father in this area because I am weak. Calm the anger that stirs within me in those moments as I declare your strength shall be made perfect in my weakness. Strengthen me to stand in the calm of your peace even when people make untrue accusations against me. Help me to defend myself in those moments from a place of peace and not war. Help me to know when I need to end the conversation in love even when my words are misunderstood. Help me to trust that you will correct anything that I could not correct in my own strength. Uproot any resentment or bitterness that has taken or tries to take root within me in those intense moments. Block every thought that would fuel the fire of an argument. If I abuse or manipulate others with my words or actions change me. If I am a victim of abuse or manipulation by the words and actions of others aware or unaware, help me to see clearly and peaceably deliver me. This spirit of strife, contention, division and striving has created unwanted separation from those that I love. Father I know I don’t have the power to change anyone, not even myself, but I also know that you do have the power. I cast this care of my heart onto you Lord. With meekness and humility I ask you to change me and the people in my life. Help me and those I communicate with keep the boundaries that will foster peaceful relationships. Help me to accept the things I cannot change, change the things I can and give me the wisdom to know the difference as I declare that I will speak from a place of peace and you will deliver me from those who don’t.

​In Jesus name, I pray,

Amen.

Proverbs 17:19

Anyone who loves to quarrel loves sin; anyone who trusts in high walls invites disaster. 

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